Heinrich & Elisabeth:
The Zimmermann-Willems Marriage
“The
father of Sister Willems, a minister of the Gospel, made quite an impression on
me. He was not a very able speaker, but
when he would get up and say something, I sensed that it had been saturated in
prayer.”
Rev. G. B.
Huebert, minister of the Reedley M.B. Church 1934-1937
My sister Jacque recently sent me a box of family
pictures and papers from my father’s files she thought I might want. Included were some old tapes, one of which my
dad made in at Grandma and Grandpa’s Golden Wedding celebration in February
1959. The fidelity isn’t great—I can’t
recognize who is speaking unless their name is mentioned, but it is fun to hear
the singing and rather awesome to relive an experience that took place fifty
years ago last February. Fifty
years. That is how long Grandma and
Grandpa had been married when the tape was made. Listening, it suddenly hit me that Grandma
and Grandpa’s wedding took place 100 years ago this year! Amazing.
One of the things that I was
particularly delighted to find on the tape was a talk by Reverend G.B. Huebert,
minister of the Reedley MB Church from 1934-1947. In it, he makes the comment above about
Grandma’s father, our Great-Grandfather Zimmermann. What is particularly important about this
find is that it presents a view of our great-grandfather that comes from
someone outside the family, a “someone” who was not just “anyone.” Reverend Huebert was one of the leading MB preachers
of his time, the first paid minister of the largest Mennonite Brethren Church
in North America. And what he has to say
is that though Heinrich Zimmermann was “not a very able speaker,” he yet
left a lasting impression on him because he sensed that HHZ’s words were “saturated
in prayer.”
Memory: Mary & Rosie
Aunt Mary was seventeen when
Heinrich died in 1934; Rosie was seven.
They have vivid memories of their grandparents, and their memories
provide a view of Heinrich and Elisabeth that is very different from that of official
records and adult observers:
“We
always heard them coming. Grandma would
sit in back and he’d sit in front—He had a new Chevrolet and he’d drive it in
second gear. It made such a racket! We’d ask, ‘Why do you drive it in second
gear?’ And he said, ‘Well, it goes too
fast!”
Aunt Mary (1996)
Interview: 1996
Do you have any memories of your Grandpa and Grandma Zimmerman?
Mary: “Well, Grandpa was such a neat
housekeeper…—and he would keep house.
Oh, Yes.”
Rosie: “They were adorable, little bitty,
bitty people.”
Mary: “He was shorter, a little taller than
Grandma. But he had one bad eye.”
Rosie: “He had a beard.”
Mary: “Not long, but just stubble all over.
Did your Grandpa Zimmermann
have a temperament like your mom?”
Rosie: “Real easy going.”
Mary: “He loved to tickle the kids.”
Rose: “What did he have in his pockets when he
came over all the time? I can’t
remember, was it candy? Or was it
cheese? It was something.”
Mary: “I don’t remember that.”
Rosie: “Oh, we just looked forward so much
because he would always give us something.”
What was your grandma like?”
Mary: “Very quiet. Very quiet, and very sober.”
Rosie: “ Not very pleasant.”
Mary: “Not much laughing around her. And she’d scold us at times—we’d laugh too
much. I think that’s where Clara got the
idea that laughing was a sin. --When she
was little she’d be so sober-faced, and she’d say, ‘Laughing is a sin!’”
Rosie: “Wasn’t it Helen one time —oh this is kind
of pitiful ‘cause Grandma Zimmerman was kind of senile already,--and Helen said
that this was one of the commandments that Jesus laughed. And Grandma’d say, ‘No!’ And Helen said, ‘Yep. It’s in there.’”
Mary: “After Grandpa Zimmerman died, Grandma
split all her money between all her kids.
She was going to live two months at each home, but slowly they all
started to back out. Finally they had a
meeting and decided that they should all pay me a bit so I could afford to stay
home and look after her. Uncle Jack paid
the first ten dollars, and I never saw any money after that. Mom was stuck with her.”
In the year 1934 it pleased
the Lord to also take [Elisabeth’s] second husband from her side into the home above. Again she stood alone. Since the home-going of Father Zimmerman, our
dear mother has lived alternately with her children. She died in the house of her oldest son C.
Willems, northeast of Reedley. Her high
age was the cause of her home-going; she was bedfast the last two months, and
unconscious five days. Her departure was
a gentle sleep. She reached the age of
84 years, 11 months and 24 days. She
remained faithful till her death.”
Zionsbote Obituary for Elisabeth Willems Zimmerman (5
Jan 1943), [full text at end of document]
Mary: “I remember she was sitting under the
clock at the house on Milsap. She was
knitting, and she said, in German,
--‘Can’t think. Can’t
knit any more. My knitting days are over!’
Elisabeth was just a few days shy
of her 85th birthday when she died on December 5, 1943. Now that more and more people live into the
their 90s and 100s, reaching the age of 85 is no longer a big deal. But in the 1940s, that was not the case. Average life expectancy was just 39 years for
women born in the 1850s, the decade of Elisabeth’s birth. Elisabeth lived 46 years beyond that average
life span. And when you consider that
she had borne nine children in the harsh conditions of what was then the
frontier, her almost-85 years looks remarkable indeed. She must have had a strong body, a tough
constitution. However, those last nine
years of her life were definitely a task, for her and for her family.
Elisabeth’s decision to sell all
her property, divide the proceeds among her children, and spend the rest of her
life in their homes put a real burden on her family, a burden that seems to
have primarily fallen on our grandma’s shoulders. Did Elisabeth realize that her children did
not really want her living with them?
Did she feel herself unwanted? Or
did she just place herself in her children’s care, trusting that they would do
their duty and take care of her whether they liked it or not, confident that
they would work things out? We don’t
really know.
We do know, however, that she was deeply
religious. She had been schooled in the
attitude of trust, trust that God would provide her needs in this life as well
as trust that there was something far better awaiting her. That hope may have helped her find patience
with her failing body, the loss of active life, and the necessary dependence on
her children. Her faith taught that
death was release, the door to a new, perfect life. Her task was to wait, to endure that which
was necessary to finish up this life.
And she seems to have done just that.
Her long, slow decline did not allow her to actively testify to her
faith in the hours before her death in the way that her husband Heinrich did,
but the family member who wrote her obituary witnessed for her, declared: “She
remained faithful to her death.”
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Zionsbote (5 January, 1944)
Sister Elisabeth Willems Zimmerman, maiden
name Boldt, was born December 8th in the year 1858 in the village of
Pastwa, Molotschna, Russia. In the year
1875 she emigrated with her parents the Jakob Boldts to America. Protected by God’s sheltering hand, they
arrived on August 18th the same year in Mountain Lake,
Minnesota. It was quite difficult to
adjust to the new land and to the new situation. Despite the severe struggles, she stood
faithfully at the side of her parents, and was helpful in making a home in the
midst of poverty.
In the year 1879 she was received into the
church through the baptism of sprinkling by Preacher Aron Wall. This did not satisfy her heart, however. Through diligent searching of the Word of
God, she found the Lord Jesus had been baptized in the River Jordan. After serious anxiety and prayer, she found
forgiveness in the blood of the Lamb and was with her first husband C.
Willems baptized on 5 May 1880 by Elder Heinrich Voth and received as a
member in the Mennonite Brethren Church at Mountain Lake.
In the year 1900 they settled in
Saskatchewan, Canada, where they made their home at Bruderfeld, in the hopes of
making their life work on the farm easier. Man thinks, but God arranges. God’s ways were appointed differently. In the year 1902 her husband, our father,
became ill and was taken from her side through death on August 8th. Alone with nine children, of whom 8 children
were born in Mountain Lake and one in Canada, she looked into a dark future, and
in looking to the Lord, who is the Lord over widows and orphans, she overcame
this pain. This first marriage with
our father C. Willems was [contracted] on 24 March 1881. This marriage was blessed with nine children,
who are all still living. Happy was the
marriage, difficult was the pain of parting.
On 18 March 1906 she joined hands in
marriage with Brother Heinrich Zimmerman, preacher of the Mennonite
Brethren church. They lived in
Bruderfeld, Saskatchewan for fourteen years, and in the year 1920 they settled
for the first time in California and in the year 1926 for the second time;
since that time our parents have lived in the vicinity of Dinuba and
Reedley. In the year 1934 it pleased the
lard to also take her second husband from her side into the home above. Again she stood alone. Since the homegoing of Father Zimmerman, our
dear mother has lived alternately with her children. She died in the house of her oldest son C.
Willems, northeast of Reedley. Her high
age was the cause of her homegoing; she was bedfast the last two months, and
unconscious five days. Her departure was
a gentle sleep. She reached the age of
84 years, 11 months and 24 days. She
remained faithful till her death. She
leaves four sons, five daughters, five stepchildren, four daughters-in-law,
five sons-in-law, fifty-two grandchildren, all living, and eight grandchildren
preceded her in death. [She also leaves] four brothers and two sisters and a
number of relatives and many friends.
Her hour of deliverance struck Thursday, December 2nd, at 8
o’clock in the evening. We rejoice in
blessed hope of a reunion.
The
Children*
* [Translated 4 June 2006 by Peggy Goertzen on behalf of Loretta Willems,
transcribed 4/29/08 by LW]
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